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BREAKING: From Campaign Donor to ‘Kill Me or Pay Me’: Man Reviews APC Investment Balance Sheet

  In what appears to be Nigeria’s most dramatic “return on investment” complaint yet, a man on Thursday stormed the All Progressives Congress (APC) national secretariat in Abuja with a message as blunt as it was unsettling: reward me or kill me. The protest, captured in a now-viral video, shows the visibly distressed man holding a placard and demanding recognition for what he described as his personal sacrifices during the party’s 2023 campaign. According to him, loyalty was not just emotional, it was financial, physical, and, ultimately, total. In a country where political support often comes with expectations, some spoken, many implied the man’s outcry reads like a tragic audit of misplaced trust. His claim that he sold his house to fund campaign efforts has not been independently verified, but the symbolism is hard to ignore: a citizen liquidating stability in exchange for promised political dividends. Observers at the scene watched as the protester oscillated between anger and ...

The Culture of Vultures: Nigeria’s Obsession with Mourning the Dead

 

.... a society that cannot process greatness until it is frozen in memory




In case the dead legends rise to watch, they will see their beautiful burials,  a mockery of the isolation they endured in life.



In 2010, Nigeria lost one of its brightest young rappers, Dagrin, in a fatal auto crash. His death shocked the nation, and within hours, images of the wreckage and his body spread like wildfire across social media. In that moment, a trend was born, one that has since grown into what can be described as a culture of vultures: waiting for someone to die before giving them the recognition, support, or attention they deserved while alive.


The cycle has continued relentlessly, from Goldie, Kefee, MC Loph, and Mohbad, to the most recent tragedy: Raji Samad Adetola, popularly known as Mr Sanku, a fast-rising skit maker whose burial in Osogbo drew public attention. Each time, the script is the same: silence in life, noise in death.



The cost of getting into the limelight in Nigeria comes with a painfully high price tag. Let’s pause and face reality: many young Nigerians are depressed, waiting endlessly for their dreams to break through. Yet, instead of solidarity, they are often met with indifference, until death makes them trend. This culture of vultures has gradually pushed people into envy, bitterness, and even hatred for those who manage to climb the ladder of success. Nowadays, some wait for their friends to die just to mourn them in a mockery of tribute.



But this is not only about individuals. It reflects our larger reality as a nation. Our apathy, our careless choices, the curses we rain on our land, and even the contempt we show for our own national flag have all conspired to make dreams in Nigeria fragile like sacred lamps struggling to burn against a storm. For many, the pursuit of destiny has become a Herculean task.



To the young, talented dreamers still pressing on: guard your destiny with prayer and perseverance. To those already reaping the fruit of their labor: do not wear your success like an armor of pride, for the culture of vultures is ever waiting to devour, as though you were victims of a system that resents your survival.


The truth is bitter but clear: in Nigeria today, it often seems easier to trend in death than to shine in life. But we must resist this decay. We must break this cycle. We must learn to lift one another up in life, not only in death.


For if we do not learn to honor the living, our tributes to the dead will forever remain hollow echoes.


Abioye Tosin Lawrence is the Publisher of Oriontimes Online Newspaper and the frontier voice of the HATE-AGAINST-NIGERIA Campaign.

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Driver Chop Off Vehicle Inspection Officer’s Ear Over Car Particular

  A yet-to-identified Sienna car driver has reportedly bitten the ear of a Vehicle Inspection Officer (VIO) identified as Papu Prosper. The incident occurred during a heated argument between the officer and the driver along Eagle Roundabout by Federal Government College, Warri, Delta State. The victim who confirmed the development to Vanguard on Monday, said the incident happened on Friday.  According to him, the driver was earlier apprehended during an operation over expired car particulars. “I am a Vehicle Inspection Officer (VIO). We went for a patrol in Warri, Delta State, where we apprehended a driver whose car particulars have expired.  “In the process, my boss told me to follow him to our office in Warri to confirm whether his particulars are up to date or not. “While following the man, he said he will kill me, that the VIO has done a lot. So he brought out a dagger and was trying to butcher me into pieces. I struggled to get out of the vehicle as it was on speed. ...